16 June 2012 - childrearing 1
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In the old-time authoritarian family, boys were to grow up strong
and independent so that they too could become controlling
father-figures and beat their boys. In the generations immediately
after, boys were to grow up strong and independent to avoid that, and
by the time of the sexual revolution girls could be abused for the
same reason (as well as the traditional reasons). Today we have
abandoned that goal; now children are to have a safe and efficient
life to fit them for a society in which independence does not matter,
so they are micromanaged and kept under surveillance to suppress any
unruly originality. Finally we’ve found the right tool to break the
ancient cycle! Those who have never been free savor freedom most.